There were the years in which:
*I was dating a high school lame-o.
*My best girlfriend was my date. Mi Pueblo cheese
dip and Sonic slushes can cure any heartbreak.
*I spent the day with my parents...the best Valentine's of all.
They don't buy goobie "I love you" stuff and they get you the
expensive chocolates.
* I was miles away from my future husband and cried my way through the horrific day.
But I digress.
But this year was way different. I have to say that I think that marriage is the best experience ever. (Bear with me single ladies...). I have been falling more and more in love with my man daily. We have ironed out a few wrinkles in our lives and have received several answers to prayers that we have been singing into the Lord's ear. I know that life won't always be dandy, but with this man, I would walk through fire.
I think I really liked Valentine's Day because for the first time I could be myself. There was no expectation to get all dolled up, go to some fancy restaurant, and buy big fancy gifts. Nope. I wore the same teacher clothes that I wore all day, ate at a local Chinese restaurant, and traded Dinner for Schmucks for a Victoria's Secret gift card. And I fell more in love. Is that even possible? I keep asking myself.
And as we enjoyed our first Valentine's Day as a married couple, I meditated on my past memory verse.
Love is patient. Love is kind.
It is not jealous, boastful, proud, or rude.
It does not demand it's own way and it keeps no record of wrong doing.
It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoiced whenever the truth wins out.
Love never gives up, never loses faith,
is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-7
Love is so many good things. My prayer through my marriage is that others will come to know the Lord just from seeing mine and N's love for each other.
People, I am just crazy about that man!
But the better end of the deal is that two men are crazy about me. The man who helps me put meaning to that verse, and the Man who wrote that verse into existence.
Could I be any more blessed? Be still my beating heart!
2 comments:
Even as a single lady I love this post, Whitney! Oh- and I'm finally following your blog. Ha!
I'm glad you had a wonderful Valentine's Day with your husband. It's encouraging and delightful to hear of how things are going in your life. I pray that God will continue to use and bless you and your man! :)
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